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Showing posts with label BITACHON. Show all posts
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11.29.2006

MISC-----misc q and a

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Punims Posted - 15 September 2003 9:10
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1. Why would we want to try and finish our jobs/potentials in this world, if you die once you're done?

2. If someone is supposed to die and they have complete bitachon that they're going to live, how can Hashem change His death sentence to become life?

I heard a story of a man that was about to be killed, and he asked for a drink of water. He made a shehakol and a miracle happened and they didn't kill him.

Was Hashem going to save him if he DIDN'T make that bracha? Why would Hashem change His mind by the man saying "Everything that happens is by the word of Hashem".. It still WAS by the word of Hashem BEFORE he said the bracha.


MODERATOR Posted - 15 September 2003 9:22
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1. Because it’s worth it, for Olam Habah. It’s like saying, why is it worth making a million dollars in your business if afterwards you have to go retire to the French Riviera and live like a King?

2. First, there is a machlokes between the Chazon Ish and Rav Yisroel Salanter if Bitachon works the way you describe. According to the Chazon Ish, Bitachon does not mean if you have Bitachon you get whatever you want, but that you are confident that whatever Hashem does for you - whether you wanted it or not - is only for the best. According to that, Bitachon does not change your fate, because why would you want to? Everything is for the best as it is!

Second, sometimes a person can change the designated day of his death through Mitzvos, particularly Chesed. Being in this world is an opportunity, and Hashem grants you more opportunity if you show that you used the opportunity that He gave you properly.

Chesed has an additional element. If people depend on you, then Hashem may allow you to live beyond your designated days, because if you were to die, those other people would suffer. So a Baal Chesed who people depend on gets long life because others need him.


Punims Posted - 15 September 2003 12:57
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1. But isn't death like one of the most feared incidents? How can a person believe that fulfilling his goal here, which will mean he has to die, is the right thing to do?

2. If the Chazon Ish is right, that bitachon doesn't change anything... how do you explain all those stories about people who had so much bitachon that their luck changed? Like winning the lottery.

I heard a story about a simple man who just found out bout the concept of bitachon. So he decided that he's not going to work and G-d will provide. His family thought he was nuts, so they sold his donkey.

The man who now had the donkey decided to go seek his fortune. He went into the forest, found a treasure and just as he loaded the donkey, a huge boulder fell on him.
The donkey then ran back to his former owner, who became rich.

The Alshich told his students this story, and his students asked how a pashut Jew can have so much bitachon like that, and if they tried it, it would never work.

He said because the man was way too simple to understand anything else. So he had total bitachon, but the Alshich's talmidim are so smart that they analyze everything and can never fully reach that level of bitachon.

So how does that all fit into the Chazon Ish's explanation?

3. If Hashem lengthens your days because others need you, does He have to recreate your life? Cuz He knew what you're going to do at every second and He had your life prepared. What if, in this lengthening of days, the guy decides to get married.

Did Hashem just decide on the spot who the guy's children will be? It's not just lengthening the life of one man, it's completely creating an entire new world.



MODERATOR Posted - 15 September 2003 13:07
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1. Death is feared because how can we be sure that we have indeed fulfilled our tachlis? Plus, Hashem gave us survival instincts which are useful for preserving our health in this world. Impending death assaults that instinct and causes fear which is designed to generate a fight or flight response that can save your life. But if someone is on a level of perception where he actually feels that he is in this world only to fulfill his purpose, he will indeed not be scared of death.

2. The Chazon Ish would probably deny those stories. None of them are documented anyway. And the story you cite about the Alshich sounds so not like the Alshich and his Hashkofo; in fact, it sounds altogether unreasonable: going higher and learning more does NOT, ever, harm a person in any way, including Bitachon. You become more connected to Hashem and more aware of His presence in your life, which is what Bitachon is based on. (Of course, this is assuming your learning is legit, which, in the case of the Alshich’s students, it was.)The story sounds more like one of those fake Chasidic folklore tales that the "hamon am" are so fond of.

3. Hashem doesn’t have to recreate your life, but He has "contingency" plans. When you are born, your fate is a complex series of If-Then-Else program modules that run based on your actions. What happens to you depends on the decisions you make, but all based on the preordained If-Then outline that Hashem put in place.

11.26.2006

EMUNAH & BITACHON-----chazon ish and r salanter

cuziwannaknow Posted - 30 December 2001 22:24

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We learned that if you have enough Emunah in Hashem about a certain thing, then it will 100 percent happen - ex: story of Rav escaping across border with family, he told them all to think "ayn od bilvado" and they were invisible to the guards –

So is it true that if I 100 % believe I will win the lottery ticket, then I will?


MODERATOR Posted - 30 December 2001 22:52

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There is a machlokes about this. It is said in the name of Rav Yisroel Salanter ZTL that if you have total Bitachon that something will happen, it will. The Chazon Ish disagreed. He held that Bitachon doesn’t mean you will get what you want, but rather it means to trust in Hashem that whatever He gives you - whether or not it is what you want - is for the best.

The "ain od milvado" thing is something else. Rav Chaim Volozhen ZTL writes that if a person focuses his mind solely on the fact that Hashem is the sole power in the world (ain od milvado), then nothing can harm you since you are then totally under the protection of Hashem.

The idea that the more you focus on Hashem's control the more you are subject to His Hashgachah predates Rav Chaim Volozhen and is actually the Rambam and/or the Ralbag's (depends how you understand what they wrote) interpretation of Hashgachah Pratis.

11.08.2006

EMUNAH & BITACHON-----9/11 hashgocha

PART II - HASHGOCHA

Ari Schonbrun is one of the heads of Tomchei Shabbos in the Five Towms area of New York. I know him personally. His office was on the 101st floor in World Trade Center


#1. He told Arutz-7 how his life was saved by "miracle after miracle after miracle:"


"I was on the 78th floor, about to enter an elevator for the 101st floor (I happened to have stayed home an extra ten minutes in order to help my son with some schoolwork...), when I heard a tremendous explosion.

All the electricity went out. I entered an office where I saw some light, and someone was on the radio, I tried to get her to get some help, but she couldn't do it because there were too many people. Then I told the floor's fire warden that we have to get out… he said OK, we can go down the emergency steps, but we couldn't find them, there was only smoke all around.

I kept walking and I found a man saying, "Here, here," so about 15 people went down the steps there. A co-worker of mine named Virginia was hurt, and she kept saying, "Don't leave me, don't leave me." I went with her and we started going down.

My cell phone was dead, but after we went about three floors, all of a sudden the phone started ringing. It was my wife, and I told her, "Joyce, I'm OK, I'm OK," over and over. Then someone asked me if he could use the phone and I said sure, and again - the phone was totally dead. I felt that it was just a miracle that my wife got through.

Virginia kept saying, 'Don't leave me,' and I said to everyone, 'Make way, there is someone wounded here,' and they let us through. At one point she said she couldn't go any further, and I said, " Virginia, you just have to!"

We finally got down to the bottom, and the police directed us where to go outside, and I looked around and finally found someone to help [Virginia] - only then did I look around outside and see the second building on fire. I couldn't understand, and I said, "I know that there was some bomb in the first building, but why is there a fire in the second building?" - because the whole time until then I didn't hear or know anything else... So then they told me that two planes had crashed, one into each building. We had had absolutely no idea.

At that point Virginia still didn't let me go, she said I have to go with her even to the hospital. I said I don't know if they'll let me, etc. But she said I had to, and they let me in the ambulance, and we were apparently the first ambulance that left from there… When we got there, I found out that the second building fell.

And I know that if I hadn't gone with Virginia, I would have stayed there walking around, and who knows what would have happened to me. I'm telling you, it was just miracle after miracle after miracle that saved my life… Just like in the story of Purim…"

EMUNAH & BITACHON-----response to 9/11

WHAT WE SHOULD THINK IN RESPONSE TO THE TERROR
PART I

It’s true – and this everyone knows already – that when suffering befalls us, we are obligated to take stock in our actions and do teshuva, because, as Chazal say, “There is no suffering without sin, and no pain without transgression”. The Rambam writes that it is cruelty (achzorius) to allow suffering to happen without attributing it to our sins. It’s like when a father slaps a kid in the face, and the kid says, “I trust my father that he must have had a reason to slap me, but I am not capable of figuring out why”. The purpose of the slap is to teach a lesson, and if the kid refuses to learn, then I guess another punishment is necessary, r”l.

OUR RESPONSE: IMPROVEMENT VS. CHANGE

So the first, most basic response is Teshuva, but it has to be accompanied by ruthless objectivity. Meaning, I am certain that everyone will say in response to this, “We have to speak less loshon horah, respect each other more, do more chesed and learn more torah”. People love to look at themselves and say, “We can improve”. But they do not like to say, “We have to CHANGE”. There is a big difference. Improvement means you have a certain value that you are striving toward, but you have to strive harder, more, better. Of course, regardless of how hard you strive there is always room for improvement. People are willing to commit to improve, but of course since there’s always room for improvement and always will be, the determination of whether they actually did as much as they could do to improve is impossible to make.

Then there is “change”. As opposed to improvement, where you have to try harder to do what you already are doing, or at least want to do, change, in this context, means to wake up and to realize that there are many aveiros that people are not trying to work on at all, but merely live our life accepting them as part of our lifestyle. People don’t want to think about these aveiros because responding to them means not only some vague commitment to “try harder” but to measurably and visibly make changes in your lifestyle.

That is why if someone says, “Jews are being killed in Israel. It’s because we talk loshon horah, we don’t respect each other enough, and don’t pray with enough kavanah”, people will accept that. But if someone says, “Jews are being killed in Israel. It’s because married women do not cover their hair, because people go mixed swimming, because boys and girls mix in ways they should not, because people read and watch and log on to places they should not”, people will get mad offended. Why would we accept only certain aveiros as capable of causing death and not others? Is it because we are reluctant to admit that our very lifestyle needs to be changed? Or that we only want to accept responsibility for something that we can always say, “We’re trying”, or “There’s ALWAYS room for improvement?”

Whatever. Our first response to tragedy is to ruthlessly audit our actions and admit to ourselves that our sins – not only loshon horah and disrespect for each other – is causing Jews to die all over the world. When Achan sinned by talking from the spoils of Yericho, Jews were killed, and that was one person, one sin. Everyone knows what their own sins are, and Hashem is showing us the possible consequences of them. And better he should show us in Olam hazeh…. At least now we are getting a warning. Sins are the most destructive thing in the universe.

THE CHURBAN OF OUR SINS

The World Trade Center was probably the most monumental structures in the whole world. I’ve been in many countries, and I have never seen anything like them in terms of overwhelming hugeness. Watching it be blown away shakes us up, and we are shocked at the sight of something so big being obliterated like that.

The reality is, though, that what we watched this week is nothing compared to what our sins do in Shamayim. This world is nothing. It’s a puny, little spec compared to the universe at large. And the universe itself is less than a puny spec compared to the Olamos HaElyonim, the majestic upper worlds that are closer to Hashem. This entire universe is a little joke compared to the universe upstairs.

And the damage that a few planes can do down here is nothing compared to the utter destruction what sins can do up there. Up there is a world that lasts forever, is built of the goodness of our Mitzvos, and is beautiful and majestic beyond our comprehension.

When we do a sin, it is like atom bombing the most majestic city in the world. All the suffering, the screaming, the destruction, the horror and the ugliness, happens in Shamayim. It’s hard to envision what such a thing looks like, but last week’s destruction of something so big and majestic that horrified and shocked so, is a small miniscule Moshol of what we do to Hashem's world, to our own eternal Gan Eden world, and to this small world too, when we sin.

After 120 years, we will live forever and ever, for millions and millions of years until eternity, in a world that we make. Our Mitzvos build towers. Our aveiros tear them down. The horror and the shock of seeing the WTC torn down is nothing compared to our shock and horror of seeing the towers built by our Mitzvos torn down by our own actions. We are all going to have to relive the experience of the world trade center destruction in the next world. It will be not the death of others, but our own death over and over being experienced then, the pain and anguish will not be watched but intimately felt.

It won’t be some business offices that will be destroyed but our own homes, built by the sweat of our brows. That we will see crashing down around us, where we will be trapped between vaporizing heat waves and jumping to a crashing death. Our deaths, our homes, our horror, and our tragedy – it will all be so personal and up close. Taking place in the deepest part of our souls. We will see it happen, experience it, feel it in the most painful way. And we will think about those beautiful towers and the city that we built with our mitzvos and get sickened by what was and what could have been if not for the destruction taking place before our eyes. And we will wonder at the evil of the terrorists and what kind of animal would destroy such an infinitely beautiful city created out of the stuff of Mitzvos, and torture such beautiful peaceful souls created in the Image of G-d. We will watch, helplessly as the most beautiful and majestic structures go down in smoke and ashes, destroyed by suicide hijackers. We will watch and not be able to stop them, and we will wonder how Hashem could allow such beauty to be destroyed – beauty that was created by a Jewish soul – a chelek elokah mima’al – a part of Hashem Himself. Infinite beauty and majesty. How could Hashem allow it? We will scream out at the injustice and the evil of the perpetrators, the death and destruction they are causing. The sorrow, the horror. The lives snuffed out at their hands, and we will demand justice. We will scream to hashem to reveal the identities of the cowardly pilots and bring the criminals to justice. And we will demand to know, how such pain and horror could exist in the Olam HaEmes.

And Hashem will then answer us. And all the horror and pain that we saw until then will pale in comparison to the horror and pain and shock that we will realize that we didn’t grow much from when we lived in the Olam HaSheker, that just like we had eyes but refused to see Hashem’s justice in this world, we still are blind in the next world, too blind and deaf and dumb to understand the justice and ways of hashem, because at that moment, when we scream in pain and horror at the destruction of the infinite beauty created by our mitzvos, Hashem will allow us to see the entire picture. And when see that whole picture, we will then know the horror and pain of Gehennom itself, worse then experiencing our own deaths thousands and thousands of times over, and being helpless to stop it.

Because we will then see that the pilots, the terrorists, the masterminds behind this destruction…

… is us.

We did the aveiros, we knew what they would do, we were warned, and we destroyed our own world. And one avairah is like dropping ten thousand suicide planes on G-d’s world. On our world, that we created with our mitzvos.

But it will be too late, then.

“Today is the time to do them [the Mitzvos], tomorrow is the time to reap their reward.”

We have a choice. Let’s make it before it’s too late.

Let’s learn from the terrible destruction that we just saw.

Rosh HaShanah is coming. Let’s do teshuva.

(More to come....)

11.03.2006

EMUNAH & BITACHON-----attributing tzaros to sins

I found this on a blog, and I thought it was a really good thing that we should all keep in mind.


This week, many different rabbis were trying to posit what poor behaviors of Israel and the Jewish people was the "reason" for the current war. Was it the "Gay Parade" scheduled to march in Jerusalem? Was it the lack of modestly dressed people? Previous Chief Rabbi of Israel, Rav Mordechai Eliyahu was asked this exact question this past week -- and he angrily answered as follows:


I suggest that instead of people trying to accuse the Jewish people...and being prosecutors against them...they should adopt the opposite strategy, and be advocates of the Jewish people. Look at the tremendous outpouring of love and concern for the Jews of Northern Israel...what a wonderful people the Jewish nation can be.




If this rabbi really said such a thing I do not know, but it is a horrible mistake and completely against the Torah, besides being an error in logic.

The Churban Bayis was attributed to Sinas Chinam. Would this rabbi say that Chazal were wrong and better we should find the good in the Jews who lived during the Churban? Were Chazal then "accusing the Jewish people?"

As the Chavas Daas writes in the introduction to his commentary on Eichah, there is no point whatsoever to recount tragedies unless we at the same time recount the reasons that caused them, i.e. the sins, in order to ensure that we are careful not to allow them to happen once more.

Throughout history, whenever calamity befell Klall Yisroel, we held it obligatory to access the cause of the suffering, so that we will know what it is within us that needs improvement, and to make sure we know how never to allow that suffering to return.

So the Chasid Yaavetz wrote a sefer, Ohr HaChaim, analyzing the sins that caused the Inquisition. He did not refrain because of "accusing" Klall Yisroel.

Rav Elchonon Wasserman ZTL analyzes the sins that caused Hitler's coming, as well as our suffering during the blood libels in Europe.

Rav Chaim Ozer Grodzinsky ZT”L, in the introduction to Achiezer analyses the sins that caused our suffering during World War I.

The words of the Rambam should suffice here:

"The Torah commands that horns be blown to waken the congregation whenever the Land is hit by tragedy, be it war, epidemic, or drought. These sounds are a call to repentance and a reminder that suffering is a product of sin. For people to interpret such problems as merely coincidental is cruel, because this will repent the nation from changing its ways and cause them to continue the corrupt behaviors that caused the suffering to happen to them in the first place"

When a tsunami strikes, it is wise to determine why, so that we may prevent it from happening again. Same thing for all things - small or large - that you don’t want to happen. So if suffering takes place we want to prevent it. The smart and kind thing to do is to identify the cause and fix it.

Now if this rabbi said that he doesn’t believe this is the cause, or that he doesn’t think we can identify the cause altogether, that would be a different discussion. But he did not say that. He allegedly said that instead of identifying the cause of the problem so that we can fix it, we should talk about what wonderful people we can be.

Oi. This is like someone who sees an epidemic in his community but instead of warning people why it happened so that it should not happen again, he decides "why talk about the bad that people do? Let’s talk about how they take care of their health!".

That is not being an accuser. Accusation only applies before the verdict is given. After the suffering hits, that means the verdict has been made and the sentence is being carried out. It's not as if we are deriving the fact that sins were committed because of the suffering we are going through -- rather, whether or not this suffering would be here, we would still be fully aware of these sins. No secret that they made a gay parade. No secret that it is appalling in the eyes of Hashem.

Those are facts, not "accusations."

We are being told be Hashem that we did something wrong and that we should improve. For us to ignore that just invites more suffering rachmana latzlan.

And as the Rambam says, someone who refuses to connect suffering to sin is cruel, and prevents people from avoiding that suffering in the future.

So now we have another, additional cause of suffering, courtesy of the Rambam. Namely, rabbis who try to prevent us from connecting our suffering to our sins.

Repeat disclaimer: I am not aware if this rabbi actually said this, or if he is being misquoted, or what. I am dealing with the issue, regardless of whoever said it.


Also on this topic, see:

http://www.frumteens.com/topic.
php?topic_id=105&forum_id=17&Topic_Title=
Rav+Ovadia%27s+Comment+on+the+Holocaust&forum_title=Punishment


In addition to all of the above, the alleged statement of that rabbi is also a logical fallacy, and intrinsically contradictory. If he would be right, then by his criticizing Jews for assessing the cause of suffering, and saying that what they are doing is wrong, he "accusing" klall yisroel and being a prosecutor against them. Instead of getting angry and publicly accusing Jews of wrongdoing, he should instead look at all the good these people do.

It is absurd to criticize people by saying it is wrong to criticize people.



The difference between this and all the situations the moderator cited is that in those, gedolim took those positions and made those statements, and here, every Yossi Schmoe is stating his own belief. I have not heard one statement from a godol today giving a precise reason for the war. There is a call for teshuva, and we definitely need to do so, but no real da'as Torah is blaming the war on one specific thing. If da'as Torah comes out with such a statement - ok. But who are we to presume that we know what the cheshbon of Hashem?



nechy,

First, Talmidei Chachamim don’t always communicate with Nechy. What a Talmid Chacham says to his Talmidim or anywhere else does not necessarily mean you will hear about it. Usually, you won’t. We are not bound by Nechy's opinions of who is "Joe Shmoe" and who is a Godol.

But more to the point, the statement you quoted did not say that the people talking are not choshuv enough; it said that attributing sins to tragedies is being mekatreg and we should not do it. Such a statement is absolutely wrong.


Q: What should our reaction be when suffering strikes us?


A: If a person sees that suffering is befalling him, he should examine his deeds to see why Hashem is bringing about the suffering, as the Gemora says (Brachos 5a).

The Rambam reiterates this and states (Taanis 1:2,3) that when tragedy befalls us and we do NOT attribute it to sins, it is a great cruelty. Please see my posts above - it's like a doctor seeing a patient with bad lungs and tells him "don’t worry - it has nothing to do with your smoking." By preventing him from knowing the reason for his suffering, you are preventing him from ending the suffering by improving his deeds.

Q: What happens f you examine your deeds and find nothing in them that would make sense out of the suffering that you have endured?


A: The Gemora states if that happens, "You should attribute the suffering to bitul Torah". The simple meaning of the Gemora is that you should assume that the reason you are suffering is for the sin of Bitul Torah. Many Meforshim , including the GRA as well as Chasidishe seforim, interpret the Gemora to mean that the reason you have failed to identify the sin that caused your suffering is because of Bitul Torah. Learn more and you'll find the sin.


Q: What is this principle based on?


A: A posuk. The Gemora derives it from Eichah 3:40 - "nachpsha derocheinu vnachkora, vnashuva el hashem."

Q: What happens if the person is not guilty of Bitul Torah at all, nor could he find any other sin to explain the suffering?


A: In that case, the Gemora says, you should assume the suffering is "yesurim shel ahava." Rashi explains this to mean that Hashem makes someone suffer even if they do not sin in order to give them more reward in the next world. Other Rishonim, such as the Ramban, say that it is not possible for an innocent person to suffer, ever. Yesurim shel ahava, according to him, means that Hashem is punishing for sins that were committed beshogeg.

There are other explanations in Yesurim shel ahava as well.

Q: But how can we know Hashem's motives?


A: We are not identifying Hashem's motive, but rather His message. It's like when your father hits you. He wants you to know why you’re being punished so you shouldn’t do it again. So too, an act of suffering is not an isolate, independent action by Hashem, but rather a direct message to us.

From another angle, though the same idea, is that when Hashem brings punishment He is not acting in a random fashion, but rather facilitating a cause-and-effect reaction to our sins. Just as if r"l a person smokes he can get lung cancer; if he jumps off the roof he can break his leg; of he eats spoiled fish he can get food poisoning - so too certain aveiros bring certain punishments.

And just like a doctor can diagnose the cause of physically induced suffering, so too can we diagnose the cause of spiritually induced suffering. The latter is no more "second guessing" Hashem" than the first.

(to be continued)


Q: We know the methods that doctors use to diagnose physically induced ailments; what are the methods used to dispose spiritually induced ones?


A: Midah kneged midah is one way - the reason Hashem punished midah kneged midah is not because He likes poetic justice; it is in order to make us

aware of what sin caused the suffering. Rav Chaim Volozhen explains the reason why bitul Torah is not as easily identified as the cause of suffering as other sins (hence "pashpesh vlo matza yitleh b'bitul torah) is because whereas suffering normally corresponds to the part of the body that committed the sin, bitul Torah is capable of causing any and all types of suffering.

By Looking into the Torah we can identify the cause of our sufferings the same way as looking into the medical books is the way we identify the cause of physically-induced suffering. There are plenty of types of suffering that the Torah ties to specific sins. Through Torah, we can understand what is happening in the world. This, you don’t have to be a prophet or have Ruach HaKodesh to identify the source of suffering. At least not more than you need Ruach HaKodesh to understand the Torah. Chacham adif minavi. Chazal were baalei ruach Hakodesh, and the prophets were, well, prophets. By understanding their words, we can leverage their understanding and be able to ascertain what Hashem wants from us, the same way we use their words to understand what Hashem wants from us in terms of Halachah and Hashkafa etc.

Of course, some shailos are easier to "pasken" than others, and the requisite level of Torah expertise is required. But it is the Torah that we look into to understand these things - we do not need to look into the Heavens. Chacham adif minavi - looking into the Torah is the best way to understand Hashem's message.

Q: Please cite some examples of where our leaders have looked into the Torah and discerned the reason for suffering


A: Several examples are cited above. I'll reprint them here:

The Churban Bayis was attributed to Sinas Chinam. Would this rabbi say that Chazal were wrong and better we should find the good in the Jews who lived during the Churban? Were Chazal then "accusing the Jewish people?"

As the Chavas Daas writes in the introduction to his commentary on Eichah, there is no point whatsoever to recount tragedies unless we at the same time recount the reasons that caused them, i.e. the sins, in order to ensure that we are careful not to allow them to happen once more.

Throughout history, whenever calamity befell Klall Yisroel, we held it obligatory to access the cause of the suffering, so that we will know what it is within us that needs improvement, and to make sure we know how never to allow that suffering to return.

So the Chasid Yaavetz wrote a sefer, Ohr HaChaim, analyzing the sins that caused the Inquisition. He did not refrain because of "accusing" Klall Yisroel.

Rav Elchonon Wasserman ZTL analyzes the sins that caused Hitler's coming,

as well as our suffering during the blood libels in Europe.

Rav Chaim Ozer Grodzinsky ZT”L, in the introduction to Achiezer analyses the sins that caused our suffering during World War I.


A couple more examples (I could go on forever - our seforim are packed with such pronouncements): The blood libel against Jews has been explained as Mida Kneged Midah for the brothers selling of Yosef and using his blood as a cover.

When there was an earthquake in Tzfas, killing thousands, the Chasam Sofer attributed it to the fact that people had messed up their spiritual priorities by ignoring Yerushalayim and instead focusing on the lesser holy city of Tzfas (he mentioned other specific reasons as well).

Rav Shach said that he is certain that the Yom Kippur War, came in response to the attitude of Kochi Votzem Yadi in the Israeli army.

(to be continued)


Some more examples:

Rav Michoel Ber Weismmandel ("Ten Question to the Zionists") wrote that it was accepted amongst Gedolim during Hitler's rise that his coming was a manifestation of Hashem's anger because of Zionism. The Satmar Rebbe (Introduction to Vayoel Moshe) writes this explicitly - and says that such is clear from the Gemora's description of the punishment for violating the Three Oaths r"l.

The Chazon Ish (explained that the deaths of countless innocent children during the holocaust was Midah Kneged Midah because of the thousands upon thousands of frum children who were sent to heretical schools - some willingly and some unwillingly - schools which the Chofetz Chaim used to refer to as "Molech." There, they burned the souls of Jewish children while maintaining their bodies, and so r"l Midah Kneged Midah took place, Hashem yishmereinu (quoted in Kol Yaakov, by Rav Yaakov Teitelbaum, p. 127, as well as in Maaseh Ish, vol. 5 p.128).

(to be continued)

Rav Elchonon Wasserman, in Ikvesa D'Meshicha, describes how Jews, before WWII, were imitating the non-Jewish ways. His words:

"In recent times Jews have stopped learning Torah, and as a result, they have spare time. How do they spend their free time? They go in droves to the amusement places and theaters, returning home filled with unholy thoughts;

thus the Jewish home also becomes defiled.

"Hashem's answer was not long in coming: Like lepers, Jews are driven form the Gentiles' places of entertainment ... 'If you do not keep apart from the nations, you will be delivered into the hands of Nevuchdnezzar and his cohorts' (Rashi on Vayikra 20:26).

"These days, the Jews have chosen two 'idols': socialism and nationalism [i.e. Zionism - Mod]...The doctrine of Jewish nationalism can be summed up in the phrase 'Let us be like the goyim'. All that is required of a Jew is to have nationalist feelings. If he pays the shekel and sings Hatikvah, he is exempt from all the Mitzvos.

"Clearly, according to the Torah way of thinking, this is idol worship. These two forms of idolatry have poisoned the hearts and minds of Jewish youth...

"And now a miracle has happened: In Heaven, these two idolatrous organizations have merged into one: national-socialism, the deprived Nazi movement. It has grown into a horrendous rod of Hashem's wrath which strikes at the Jews in all corners of the globe. The abominations to which we have bowed down are striking back at us.
Your evil deeds will punish you' (Yirmiyah 2:19)
- Ikvesa Demeshicha, p. 38. 39, English version.

Rav Elchonon uses the Midah Kneged Midah principle consistently to explain our sufferings during the WWII period (see also p.59,60).

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More contemporary examples:

If memory serves, an article in the Jewish Observer by Yonason Rosenblum, written a few years ago, cites Rav Moshe Shapiro as stating that the reason for the dangerous situation in EY today is due to the attitude of Kochi V'Otzem Yadi (similar to Rav Shach above) - if anyone can pinpoint that article and quote for me please let me know.

Rav Avigdor Miller (quoted in Nation On Fire, by Sara Shapiro, p. 306) stated that the reason for the Intifada was Mida Kneged Midah: Ehud Barak issued a statement that he was planning to transform EY into a secular state. "Because Barak made a decision to go against Hashem and assure that Torah would have no place in the secular nation, Hashem said, 'Now I’m going to teach you a lesson.' Now they are crying to Hashem 'Please help us Hashem.' Even the non-religious Jews are crying out. This is Mida Kneged Midah."

In his Rejoice O Youth, Rabbi Miller explains most of the major tragedies that took place during Golus with the rules that Chazal tell us about punishments:

"When the Jews in Spain began to use that wealthy land as a means of mingling with the Arabs and Spaniards, G-d's plan caused them to be expelled to lands of lesser culture, such as Turkey and Poland, with whom our people had no incentive to assimilate. (#590)

Serious persecutions in Russia began only when the Jewish assimilationists began to preach that Judaism is darkness and among the gentiles all is light and joy. (#595)

"But on the upsurge of the greatest defection
from the Torah in history, which was expressed in Poland by materialism, virulent anti-Torah nationalism, and Bundism, G-d's plan finally relieved them all of Free Will and sent Hitler's demons to end the existence of these communities before they deteriorated entirely. The European Jews, many of whom had long admired and imitated the Germans, were finally weaned from this enamoration by the German murder factories. The survivors would find it difficult to admire the inhuman devils who had gassed their families and tortured to death six million Jews." (#596)


He has much more, but that is a sampling.

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Q: So can I, a random teenage boy or girl, figure out why Hashem is making me suffer


A: Not likely. On one hand, Hashem wants you to improve something, which is why He makes us suffer; on the other hand, as I mentioned, to decipher Hashem's message takes Torah knowledge - it's like paskening a shailah. Without the requisite Torah expertise, it’s not likely you’ll find the right answer. If you won’t rely on your own pshat in the Tosfos, I would say surely you do not want to rely on your own pshat in Hashem's messages. Remember the GRA's explanation of yitleh b'bitul Torah --- if you can’t identify the aveirah that’s causing the suffering, that is because you don’t know enough Torah. Ergo: If you don’t learn enough Torah you aren’t going to find the answer.

And if you do find it, if you’re guilty of lot of Torah ignorance, you’re likely not to find the right one.

As an example, someone once came to the Chazon Ish (the same Chazon Ish who identified the reason for innocent children being murdered in the holocaust) and told him he was saved miraculously, and he wants to know what Hashem wants him to do, because clearly, Hashem wants something from him.

The Chazon Ish knew this person from before, and realized that he was asking not about simply fixing his sins - that he would surely do - but about some lofty levels that Hashem, to his mind, requires of him, or something like that.

So to him the Chazon Ish said, "It's impossible to know, and therefore, you can get lost in areas you don’t belong ("farkrichen" in Yiddish). Therefore, do nothing."

So in your case I would suggest following the advice of Rav Shach (quoted in Maaseh Ish vol. 2 p. 146):

When suffering strikes, it is understood that when you see the something obvious and clear as the reason, or you feel specific things that need to be rectified, it’s obvious that in such a case you are obligated to fix those things. And if someone does not try to rectify those things, he will be held greatly responsible r"l. However, in general, when a person does not know why something happened, he should not try to start analyzing things, but rather, he should strengthen himself in his Torah learning, and through the increased Torah learning his Neshomah will be strengthened (besides the learning itself). In addition, he should improve his davening, more kavana etc.

I would also advise that even when things appear "obvious", you should consult with a Talmid chacham. What is obvious to one person may be anything but to someone who is more knowledgeable.

The idea that nowadays if we start analyzing our actions in complex ways, we are liable to go totally off the mark, comes form the Chazon Ish - see Maaseh Ish vol. 2 p. 146.

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A caveat to the above:

I mentioned this elsewhere, but it is worthwhile repeating.

The entire idea of attributing suffering to specific sins only applies when you know of the existence of the sins already. But if someone is suffering, and they ask you what they did to deserve this, if you try to say well, it must be that you did such-and-such sin to deserve this, that's no good. Because in that case, you are being mekatreg. You don’t know whether the sin was committed altogether, and if it was, under what circumstances or what context. And therefore, by saying that a certain sin must have brought about the suffering, you are saying that the person deserves the suffering for his sins. That’s the mistake that was made in sefer iyov - just because iyov was suffering does not mean you can see in him. (E.g. see Igros Chazon Ish 1:201).

8.07.2006

EMUNAH & BITACHON-----why bad things happen


People say that when G-d makes a bad thing happen that our emunah is meant to become stronger. How can that be? For me personally, my emunah is weakened, how can G-d the King of the universe cause a family to be motherless,fatherless,brotherless,sisterless etc. It's destroying people??


There are people who only believe in Capitalism because they are rich. But when they lose all their money, they change their mind. If you only believe in an ideal when it suits you then you don't really believe in it at all. Rather, you believe in your own comfort. And anything that suits that goal becomes your ideal. So too with Emunah.

If the world would not be a world of darkness, if everything that happened would show us Hashem's Hashgochoh and Light, then we really would have no Emunah. Emunah means to KNOW that Hashem is running the world despite the darkness. That even though things seem wrong, still, they are all part of Hashem's Master Plan. How can such a belief exist except in a world of darkness? So Hashem made this world very messed up. It HAS to be messed up, otherwise we would not get any credit for believing.

As far as the ruining people's lives is concerned, even though visibly, and emotionally it seems that way, but people with Emunah know that despite the pain and the darkness, things are not as they seem, and that somehow, some way, when Moshiach comes and we see what REALLY happened here, we will thank Hashem for everything He did to us in this world. It's that kind of Emunah that we have to cultivate. Please see the Basic Judaism forum where this is explained at length.


You know, people always say 'don't ask questions' and 'you'll understand when moshiach comes'.

Well, what about now? How can we deal with this pain and be brought closer to G-d through this People are angry with G-d and can't understand it, and it's not good enough to say wait for moshiach because we don't know when it's coming?

If death is something that's meant to bring us closer to Hashem, why is it so painful and so hard for people to deal with it? Why does G-d choose the most righteous people to take from this world?



If you know that this world is by definition and necessity a world of darkness, where things re not as they seem, and it was meant to be so purposely, you will not feel this way. This world is a physical world. Physical worlds cannot display reality, since they are limited, our understanding is limited, and reality is only when you have unlimited information. That's why the word "sheker" in Hebrew consists of 3 letters which are all in one spot - kuf raish shin - right next to each other, but "emes", truth - consists of the first, last, and exact middle letter of the Hebrew alphabet. Because truth is when you have the whole picture, and falsehood is when you only have part.

In this world, because we are physical, and it is physical, we do not get the whole picture. We get like to peek through a little peep hole to see just a bit. But we're missing a lot because we are not infinite.

So imagine you’re peeking through that peephole. And you see someone strapped to a table with 6 people cutting him up horribly with knives. He's bleeding all over the place and you cry out to G-d to stop the atrocity in disbelief that He would allow something like that to happen in His world. Imagine, if, c"v, it was a close friend or loved one of yours, how angry you would be. But then the peep hole widens, and you see the people with knives wearing surgeons' uniforms, and the person being cut up actually undergoing a heart transplant to save his life. Then you know the whole story, and you're not complaining anymore. You're thanking Hashem for what a moment ago you were angry at Him for. This world is a world of darkness. In darkness, we cannot always see the whole picture.

More, we always cannot see the whole picture. You have to live your life with this realization. Someone walking around in a dark room will be careful to feel ahead of them so they don't bump into furniture. But if you think that the vague images you see in the darkness is all that there is, you're going to walk around and probably kill yourself bumping into things you don't see. That's how we have to live in this world. G-d guides is through the darkness with His Torah.

We have to accept the limitations of our vision and our inability to perceive what is really happening. When Moshiach comes its not that Moshiach is so smart He will be able to answer such hard questions, rather, the lights in the room will then go on; the "peep hole" will get infinitely large, and we will be able to see that our questions weren't really questions at all.

We live in darkness. That's a fact. We have a choice: Either accept it, or spend life getting hurt.

If you know that this world is by definition and necessity a world of darkness, where things re not as they seem, and it was meant to be so purposely, you will not feel this way. This world is a physical world. Physical worlds cannot display reality, since they are limited, our understanding is limited, and reality is only when you have unlimited information.

8.02.2006

EMUNAH & BITACHON-----when bad things happen


Hi. I was just diagnosed with MS earlier today. I don't yet know what kind I have or how severe it is. I just... I'm okay with it and everything, I've been searching for answers since December 2000 and I finally have them... I just want to know what Hashem wants me to learn from all of this. I need to find some meaning in it. I'm not a davening person, really, I'm BT and so I'm not really used to saying tehillim regularly... I don't know how I have the right to ask Hashem to undo what He's done to me. So when my friends tell me to daven, what's the use? It's His will. I accept it. All I want is a little bit of meaning out of all of this. Any thoughts? Thank you very much in advance.


You have a right to ask Hashem for anything you desire. Not only that, but sometimes, Hashem only gives us what we desire if we pray. he may even have something reserved for us - it may be our destiny to have it - but only if we "ask" for it.

This entire world is a place that G-d put us to get closer to Him. We do this by Torah and Mitzvos. We also do it by learning Torah, and - especially for girls who are not obligated to learn - davening.

Davening is not trying to undo what Hashem has done. Rather ,it is procuring from Hashem that which He wants to give us.

It's like those restaurants where you first go to a cahier, place and order, and you get a ticket saying what you paid for, which you present to the guy at the other end of the store with the food. He takes the ticket and gives you your order.

Our "ticket" in this world is our Tefilah. Hashem has "given" us a lot more than we currently know. We just have to "submit the ticket" and receive what we are entitled to. We submit the ticket by praying. In fact, Hashem will ask us after 120 years "Why didn’t you give in your ticket? I wanted you to have XYZ and you didn’t take it!" Meaning, "Why didn’t you daven?" Davening isn’t asking Hashem to change what Hashem wants to happen; not davening is changing it.

That having been said, whatever Hashem does to us in this world, be it pleasure or pain, is a Nisayon. Our entire purpose in this world is only to have Nisyonos. There is no other purpose. So everything that happens - every single thing - follows that purpose.

The pain, the testing of your Emunah and Bitachon, your newly found (but unrequested) sensitivity and intimate knowledge of a sickness, are all things that, in G-d's plan for "Batshua", have the ability to being her closer to fulfilling her job in this world. The ability to give people chizuk who are in a similar position, the ability to feel what they feel, the ability to maintain unwavering Emunah and Bitachon, the ability to be a model of spiritual strength and steadfastness - all these and more - are ways for you, in this temporary, dark, fake, non-understandable world, to get a closeness to G-d that is permanent -will last for millions and millions of years, is clear, loud, and glorious.

In the next world, those who have gone through suffering in this one, and have maintained their faith and Knowledge of Hashem, are going to be the ones who are the healthiest, strongest, fittest, happiest, and the ones who are going to enjoy the infinite pleasure for eternity. Those who were not zocheh to fight for their Emunah in this world, will be the ones who need Tehillim in the next. But then Tehillim will no longer help.

Nobody asks for Nisyonos in this world, and certainly, when someone is suffering, we try through prayers and actions, to alleviate it for them as much as we can. But when Hashem does reveal to someone what their Nisoyon is in this world, and gives it to them, we look at it as an opportunity given to us to be great.

Batchua: Become a role model and an example of strength and Faith in the face of suffering in a world where we have so precious little role models. Be someone for people like me to look up to, because no matter how many seforim one reads or how many questions one answers, its nothing compared to someone who has to walk the walk of strength in the face of suffering. How can I do less than admire - and envy - someone with such Emunah? Moderators need people to look up to, too.

Rav Osher Zelig Margolis ZTL once asked the Satmar Rebbe, when the Satmar Rebbe was leaving Erezt Yisroel, "Rebbe, now that you are leaving, who should we go to for blessings?" The Satmar Rebbe answered, "Go to a Shul one morning, and when the people are rolling up their sleeves to put on Tefillin, look for someone with a number tattooed onto his forearm (which mean he was in a concentration camp). That person, you can go to for a Brachah."

There are so little people nowadays that we can go to for Brachos. You will be one of them.

Rav Osher Zelig Margolis ZTL was a gaon, a Tzadik, and a master of Kabbalah. But even he needs people to go to for blessings.

And those who are Omed B'Nisayon have the power to change the world with their blessings. One day, Batshua, the greatest Tzadikim can come to you for Brachos, because of your strength and Faith. Please, if there is anything I or we here can do - even if you need some words of Chizku (everyone does) - we want to help. (PS - check out the following book: Multiple Sclerosis: A Guide for the Newly Diagnosed By Nancy Holland, T. Jock Murray, and Stephen Reingold.)